We don’t mind sending you off to other web sites if the information helps you plan. Check out the details of a $4,000.00 for 245 guests here. The only caveat I would give is in regards to acquiring the cakes and pies for the dessert reception. “Honoring” the women of the family by having them bake in order to display their culinary skills is somewhat disingenuous. Wedding guests would be more honored to simply be a guest rather than a caterer. It’s one thing if people, regardless of their gender, offered of their own initiative to bring a dessert but one must be careful not to go recruiting guests into taking on the duties of a wedding caterer or baker.