I was invited to a friend’s wedding yesterday.
…Except only to the ceremony.
…And I was invited by a group message on Facebook.
…Oh, and did I mention that it’s on this weekend?
While I was not in the least offended at not being invited at all, as I know that (like us) she’s planning a very small wedding, I find this kind of hasty, impersonal grab at a few extra last-minute guests rude at best and downright insulting at worst. 0812-12
If readers will notice, this story was submitted on Sunday, August 12. That means the OP received the online invitation on Saturday for a wedding held either later that same day or the following day.
Yes, it appears you and several others were last minute add-on guests. Makes you feel special, doesn’t it?